Wednesday, November 17, 2010

november 17th again; 131.8 pounds

so today i did something i've never done before. i voluntarily showed my best friend my scars. the only time i've ever shown anyone my scars was when the counselor at school MADE me show her so she could see how deep i was going, how much i was cutting, etc.
i cut last night for the first time on my left arm. i don't really know why because i'm right-handed, but i always cut with my left hand. but i did it with my right last night because i needed motor control because i carved my name into my arm.
after school i was talking to my best friend and i muttered, "my arm is freaking BURNing." i didn't think he heard me, but then he said what and i said what, and then he repeated what i said as a question.
i sighed and nodded. "it hurts."
"i bet," he said. "maybe it's a sign. maybe you need to stop."
"no," i countered. "it's never hurt before."
"show me," he said softly.
i looked around at all the people in the courtyard and shook my head. "no. there's people everywhere," i said.
"come here," he said, pulling me a few feet away.
"but it says my name," i argued. "i don't want you to-"
"please," he said. his tone was so quiet that i gave in, pulled up my sleeve. i left my eyes on him the whole time. his eyes widened when he saw what i'd done; the letters cut into me, the way you could see it already trying to heal over, the way he knew it would easily leave a scar.
he cleared his throat and looked into my eyes. "you're gonna be wearing hoodies for a long time, aren't you? that's not gonna come off easy."
i nodded. i've worn sweatshirts every day since i was in 6th grade. when i don't have one on, people always come up to me and go, "you aren't wearing a sweatshirt!" it's kind of funny, actually. they're always surprised at how much less i weigh than they assumed i did. the only people who knew what my body looked like were the girls i cheered with. it was kind of unavoidable for them to see me.
but anyway -
after that, we were quiet for a minute, and i let my eyes wander away from him and over to where all my other friends were standing. i left my gaze there as i said, "you know, i've never done that before."
"yeah. and let's hope it doesn't happen again."
i looked at him confused. "i've never just shown anyone my scars."
he smiled at me. "and that was a big step for you. i was actually surprised that you let me see. but i told you i'd be here for every little step you had to take. and here i am."
he opened his arms for me, and i stepped in. he gave me a casual hug since there were so many other people there, and i was okay with that.
tonight i'm meeting him at his church for bible study. i'm nervous and excited. last time i had a lot of fun, but it's a god thing, so naturally, i'm freaked. i miss god. he was always there, always. and i lost him, and it was probably the worst thing i ever did.
i've got to go pretend to eat now. wish me luck.

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